How to Resolve the Conflicts Present in the Personal, Family, Social, Professional Life-Home and Family in Need of Creative Communication-I

Well, you see we have so many books on the communication and our habit of reading such books is immense. We all want to communicate and comprehend one another’s ideas, emotions, feelings, thoughts, and concepts and so on.


In any case, the importance of art of communication is well explained in his one of the heart touching books, the ‘Art of Loving’, Erich Fromm emphasizes that we need to learn that not everything is a product, especially the feelings and the all-relevant emotional dealings.


He strongly warns about the dangers of the way we are changing our ways of thinking in the modern age.


His grave warnings are the essentials of our happy life. We have the three ways in which we interact with others and our self. This is as the first, second and the third person. This is the most commonly coordination that we go though while maintaining it among the three major levels of our body and mind.


These levels are the thought, action and the feeling levels. It is the balance in these three that makes us a healthy person as far as the psychology and the psychiatry is having the concern for the health body and mind. If we just learn how to interact properly, it can make us a good professional, but the humanly relationships are not the interactions and the dealings of the products.


We seem in need to feel it. Thus, our accepting others as they are seems as if we are accommodating a client. In the family life, we have various roles. The fatherly, motherly, sisterly, brotherly and other forms of love have different needs and ways of communication. This is feeling the joy of the rich feelings; it is quality, not the quantity.


The modern way of quantity of love may seem leading to boredom as if lacking the quality. The book is must for all and worth reading.


The interaction and communication differs, in his book he expresses that if we learn the essence of each relationship, we can live a happy life, beautiful, balanced and a contented life. It helps to learn about motherhood, fatherhood, parenthood and other bonds, which create the need for feeling the hidden mystery of all of the human bonds.


In this series, I have taken care of these points along with my own research work, Philselfology.


The blog posts are divided into parts and the continuity of one goes to the next part as it has been part of my lectures and workshops. Kindly write to me about your creative analysis and creative thoughts on the art of creative communication that we are going to share and discuss. Thanks!


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