I was his little princess. I remember how my father and my auntie would fight over me, both wanting to hold me at the same time. They were both young. My father may have been 23 and my aunt was 22. They treated me just like the little princess that they thought I was. I felt loved. I felt wonderful and I loved my auntie but most of all I loved my daddy.
My father and I lived with his mother. My aunt was married and lived downstairs. She had not yet begun her family and since I was the baby of the household she was not going to give me up without a giving my daddy a hard time. Yet, I don't remember my mother so early in life. I was aware that she existed, though I rarely remember seeing her.
My grandmother and my daddy and my auntie were all I ever wanted. I would look forward to my daddy coming home after work so that he would swoop me up in his big tender arms and shower me with hugs and kisses.
When I grew older he would wake me up out of a deep sleep to eat Chinese food in the middle of the night. I love it so much that he said I shouldn't miss out on what everyone else was eating. I felt so important.
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How to Reslove All Conflicts with Creative Communication-Philselfolgical Approach-III
You see the very thing is also present in the seven basic of the gamut. No matter how many compositions and tunes, lyrics, we make the other relevant varieties by any means of the source of the seven remains the seven, the same thing in the alphabet, numbers, basic shapes, etc. and so many things that are re-cyclic.
In other words, the use of basic remains the same only the combinations, compositions, ratios, arrangements, and other effects of abstract socialization of the countable and uncountable things receive the individualized touch of creativity, and this creativity is re-cyclic that is follows the feedback system according to the natural laws and principles.
Well, we may make our life holistic if we try to change our self, instead of changing others. We may bring changes if we start from the personal development, through the self-education and thus the creative communication as what we call the Philselfology.
The Philosophy, Self and Science together enable us to use the higher level of creative thinking and scientific way of expression that we also miss when we try to separate the creative arts, like music from Science. You see all of the creative arts are scientific in nature, and thus the word or term Philselfology. Thanks and we will continue!
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In other words, the use of basic remains the same only the combinations, compositions, ratios, arrangements, and other effects of abstract socialization of the countable and uncountable things receive the individualized touch of creativity, and this creativity is re-cyclic that is follows the feedback system according to the natural laws and principles.
Well, we may make our life holistic if we try to change our self, instead of changing others. We may bring changes if we start from the personal development, through the self-education and thus the creative communication as what we call the Philselfology.
The Philosophy, Self and Science together enable us to use the higher level of creative thinking and scientific way of expression that we also miss when we try to separate the creative arts, like music from Science. You see all of the creative arts are scientific in nature, and thus the word or term Philselfology. Thanks and we will continue!
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How to Reslove All Conflicts with Creative Communication-Philselfolgical Approach-II
Thus, for any scientific, technological, artistic, mathematical, etc. developments the art of communication is important, the equipment’s can only give better speed and accuracy. Thus, our learning is not the collection of words; rather it is the creativity in the words, which begins the creative learning and the communication.
The creative ways of communication, you see these are means for socialization, the personal socialization works behind it as the socially healthy psychic and intuitive center, which does such authentic and or original research works.
It is not possible for the equipments to reach the level of the communication that the humans can do. Like we have the three primary and seven secondary colors, but the colors that are present by different ratio of mixture of colors may give millions of the colors by the computer, however the seven colors never change.
Thus, for any scientific, technological, artistic, mathematical, etc. developments the art of communication is important, the equipment’s can only give better speed and accuracy. Thus, our learning is not the collection of words; rather it is the creativity in the words, which begins the creative learning and the communication.
The creative ways of communication, you see these are means for socialization, the personal socialization works behind it as the socially healthy psychic and intuitive center, which does such authentic and or original research works.
It is not possible for the equipments to reach the level of the communication that the humans can do. Like we three primary and seven secondary colors, but the colors that are present by different ratio of mixture of colors may give millions of the colors by the computer, however the seven colors never change.
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The creative ways of communication, you see these are means for socialization, the personal socialization works behind it as the socially healthy psychic and intuitive center, which does such authentic and or original research works.
It is not possible for the equipments to reach the level of the communication that the humans can do. Like we have the three primary and seven secondary colors, but the colors that are present by different ratio of mixture of colors may give millions of the colors by the computer, however the seven colors never change.
Thus, for any scientific, technological, artistic, mathematical, etc. developments the art of communication is important, the equipment’s can only give better speed and accuracy. Thus, our learning is not the collection of words; rather it is the creativity in the words, which begins the creative learning and the communication.
The creative ways of communication, you see these are means for socialization, the personal socialization works behind it as the socially healthy psychic and intuitive center, which does such authentic and or original research works.
It is not possible for the equipments to reach the level of the communication that the humans can do. Like we three primary and seven secondary colors, but the colors that are present by different ratio of mixture of colors may give millions of the colors by the computer, however the seven colors never change.
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How to Reslove All Conflicts with Creative Communication-Philselfolgical Approach-I
You see we can take the example of our hypothesis of one man representing the whole civilization. When he gets married the child is born which further proceeds the generation. This single child grows and becomes father again with another family that was single family of human civilization.
This hypothesis may include the terms of parenthood, brotherhood and other social terms that are present, but not known to our use of it for socialization. The communication in general and the social communication in particular are such a beautiful re-cyclic process that the way of human communication never changes what changes is only vocabulary and terminology.
Let us consider a dog or other pet that has been trained to understand the communication skill. You see if it is asked to bring back the thrown ball, it would do so. Even the birds, as the parrots and the similar understand communication, the plants too respond to the musical communication as all living things do.
If this knowledge of communication is used in the equipments, like telegrams, televisions, computers, etc., these follow it superbly.
Therefore, the art of communication is such a human gift that any individual can use it with living things and machines. It is not the Excellency of the supercomputer, rather it is the art of communication that playing its major role, the language of C++, Oracle, Java and others of advance level are developed by humans, the computers only obey it.
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This hypothesis may include the terms of parenthood, brotherhood and other social terms that are present, but not known to our use of it for socialization. The communication in general and the social communication in particular are such a beautiful re-cyclic process that the way of human communication never changes what changes is only vocabulary and terminology.
Let us consider a dog or other pet that has been trained to understand the communication skill. You see if it is asked to bring back the thrown ball, it would do so. Even the birds, as the parrots and the similar understand communication, the plants too respond to the musical communication as all living things do.
If this knowledge of communication is used in the equipments, like telegrams, televisions, computers, etc., these follow it superbly.
Therefore, the art of communication is such a human gift that any individual can use it with living things and machines. It is not the Excellency of the supercomputer, rather it is the art of communication that playing its major role, the language of C++, Oracle, Java and others of advance level are developed by humans, the computers only obey it.
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How to Resolve the Conflicts Present in the Personal, Family, Social, Professional Life-Home and Family in Need of Creative Communication-III
The words have the hidden meanings and feelings and it depends how we use these words, so for the scientific feelings we transcend to the high level of the words healing our moods the storehouse of our creativity, which if we learn to use break the disorders of the moods.
As the words of creativity evoke our moods with creative thinking, and it is not possible to do so without the metaphorical touch, the essence of metaphysical philosophy of sociology.
The whole of the process needs the involvement of the self and the conscience, in which our conscience helps to select and decide the words for creative thinking and scientific feelings.
It is the philselfological treasure of creative thinking and scientific feelings, experiencing the self, the very pivot of self-socialization leading to socially creative communication the free healing power within all of us to heal one another with words.
Let us now begin the self and social healing with Philselfology, the vital power of sprouting of the self.
You see the music is the best naturally mystic way of creative communication for catalyzing the sprouting of the self and increasing our hidden talents and the creative arts and you see most of the great people have been the artists, the creative communicators.
Let us learn how to be awaken the creative communicator, which is a hidden art within us trying to speak with the language of conscience. Thanks!
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As the words of creativity evoke our moods with creative thinking, and it is not possible to do so without the metaphorical touch, the essence of metaphysical philosophy of sociology.
The whole of the process needs the involvement of the self and the conscience, in which our conscience helps to select and decide the words for creative thinking and scientific feelings.
It is the philselfological treasure of creative thinking and scientific feelings, experiencing the self, the very pivot of self-socialization leading to socially creative communication the free healing power within all of us to heal one another with words.
Let us now begin the self and social healing with Philselfology, the vital power of sprouting of the self.
You see the music is the best naturally mystic way of creative communication for catalyzing the sprouting of the self and increasing our hidden talents and the creative arts and you see most of the great people have been the artists, the creative communicators.
Let us learn how to be awaken the creative communicator, which is a hidden art within us trying to speak with the language of conscience. Thanks!
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How to Resolve the Conflicts Present in the Personal, Family, Social, Professional Life-Home and Family in Need of Creative Communication-II
The creative thinking and arts need a different kind of communication. The interaction is what we learn, however the communication is not learning as we can borrow knowledge not the experience and feelings. Our feelings need words.
How difficult it is to find words for the creatively rich feelings, the scientific feelings. You see we all have many creative arts and these are mostly in nonverbal form, for example the music, songs, poems are just an interaction. These are means for communication.
We firstly learn to interact and communicate with nature and then with the family and society.
Thus, the social communication needs essence of the art of our communicating with nature. This natural communication if brought to social communication the emergence of creative communication takes place naturally. The taste of the social communication without creativity is not the joy of the conversation and thus socialization. There can be many definitions for what and where to say the known words from the learned or borrowed knowledge.
However, our concern is the scientific feelings that we can have from the creative art of management of the words for giving the scientific feelings and the creative thinking and thus the creative communication metaphorically.
The Sociology is the subject matter that is not just a set of theories that we learn and use for social communication. We then may remain a common person, who knows how to socialize by the means of knowledge.
However, we may be a different and rather a unique person if we learn to be creative in socialization. For example, we all know how to walk and run, but it does not make us the sportsperson unless and until we master the skills.
The same is true with socialization, we are able to interact-talking; speaking and listening with what we have learned, while trying to hide the talents that nature has bestowed with us. These are to enjoy the plants, tress, animals and the beauty of nature, which we may not enjoy in the interactions with our fellow humans.
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How difficult it is to find words for the creatively rich feelings, the scientific feelings. You see we all have many creative arts and these are mostly in nonverbal form, for example the music, songs, poems are just an interaction. These are means for communication.
We firstly learn to interact and communicate with nature and then with the family and society.
Thus, the social communication needs essence of the art of our communicating with nature. This natural communication if brought to social communication the emergence of creative communication takes place naturally. The taste of the social communication without creativity is not the joy of the conversation and thus socialization. There can be many definitions for what and where to say the known words from the learned or borrowed knowledge.
However, our concern is the scientific feelings that we can have from the creative art of management of the words for giving the scientific feelings and the creative thinking and thus the creative communication metaphorically.
The Sociology is the subject matter that is not just a set of theories that we learn and use for social communication. We then may remain a common person, who knows how to socialize by the means of knowledge.
However, we may be a different and rather a unique person if we learn to be creative in socialization. For example, we all know how to walk and run, but it does not make us the sportsperson unless and until we master the skills.
The same is true with socialization, we are able to interact-talking; speaking and listening with what we have learned, while trying to hide the talents that nature has bestowed with us. These are to enjoy the plants, tress, animals and the beauty of nature, which we may not enjoy in the interactions with our fellow humans.
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How to Resolve the Conflicts Present in the Personal, Family, Social, Professional Life-Home and Family in Need of Creative Communication-I
Well, you see we have so many books on the communication and our habit of reading such books is immense. We all want to communicate and comprehend one another’s ideas, emotions, feelings, thoughts, and concepts and so on.
In any case, the importance of art of communication is well explained in his one of the heart touching books, the ‘Art of Loving’, Erich Fromm emphasizes that we need to learn that not everything is a product, especially the feelings and the all-relevant emotional dealings.
He strongly warns about the dangers of the way we are changing our ways of thinking in the modern age.
His grave warnings are the essentials of our happy life. We have the three ways in which we interact with others and our self. This is as the first, second and the third person. This is the most commonly coordination that we go though while maintaining it among the three major levels of our body and mind.
These levels are the thought, action and the feeling levels. It is the balance in these three that makes us a healthy person as far as the psychology and the psychiatry is having the concern for the health body and mind. If we just learn how to interact properly, it can make us a good professional, but the humanly relationships are not the interactions and the dealings of the products.
We seem in need to feel it. Thus, our accepting others as they are seems as if we are accommodating a client. In the family life, we have various roles. The fatherly, motherly, sisterly, brotherly and other forms of love have different needs and ways of communication. This is feeling the joy of the rich feelings; it is quality, not the quantity.
The modern way of quantity of love may seem leading to boredom as if lacking the quality. The book is must for all and worth reading.
The interaction and communication differs, in his book he expresses that if we learn the essence of each relationship, we can live a happy life, beautiful, balanced and a contented life. It helps to learn about motherhood, fatherhood, parenthood and other bonds, which create the need for feeling the hidden mystery of all of the human bonds.
In this series, I have taken care of these points along with my own research work, Philselfology.
The blog posts are divided into parts and the continuity of one goes to the next part as it has been part of my lectures and workshops. Kindly write to me about your creative analysis and creative thoughts on the art of creative communication that we are going to share and discuss. Thanks!
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In any case, the importance of art of communication is well explained in his one of the heart touching books, the ‘Art of Loving’, Erich Fromm emphasizes that we need to learn that not everything is a product, especially the feelings and the all-relevant emotional dealings.
He strongly warns about the dangers of the way we are changing our ways of thinking in the modern age.
His grave warnings are the essentials of our happy life. We have the three ways in which we interact with others and our self. This is as the first, second and the third person. This is the most commonly coordination that we go though while maintaining it among the three major levels of our body and mind.
These levels are the thought, action and the feeling levels. It is the balance in these three that makes us a healthy person as far as the psychology and the psychiatry is having the concern for the health body and mind. If we just learn how to interact properly, it can make us a good professional, but the humanly relationships are not the interactions and the dealings of the products.
We seem in need to feel it. Thus, our accepting others as they are seems as if we are accommodating a client. In the family life, we have various roles. The fatherly, motherly, sisterly, brotherly and other forms of love have different needs and ways of communication. This is feeling the joy of the rich feelings; it is quality, not the quantity.
The modern way of quantity of love may seem leading to boredom as if lacking the quality. The book is must for all and worth reading.
The interaction and communication differs, in his book he expresses that if we learn the essence of each relationship, we can live a happy life, beautiful, balanced and a contented life. It helps to learn about motherhood, fatherhood, parenthood and other bonds, which create the need for feeling the hidden mystery of all of the human bonds.
In this series, I have taken care of these points along with my own research work, Philselfology.
The blog posts are divided into parts and the continuity of one goes to the next part as it has been part of my lectures and workshops. Kindly write to me about your creative analysis and creative thoughts on the art of creative communication that we are going to share and discuss. Thanks!
(Copyright by Dr. Harmander Singh-Protected and archived by World_Wide_OCR_dot_com Seal (TM) File, Canada)
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